While driving back home from Pusat Komuniti Sri Petaling lepas main badminton with geng JUST Unit Trust Agency. Kalah dengan Raimy. Buat masa ni Raimy champion. Wait Raimy…
Dalam kereta me and my … borak-borak and I saw a couple behind my car. I ask her to look at them.
She can guess that the couple is already married as their face look sour. Dia orang tengok kat depan je dan kadang-kadang tengok sebelah luar. Tak cakap apa-apa pun. Not a happy face even though they drive in a good and expensive car.
What is life if you are not happy. The outside look good. The car look good. The house look marvellous but the heart, the thinking, the inside feel no good. The relationship with your spouse is no good.
Thus, while driving, smile to your spouse. Everyday, imagine that you and your spouse are just get married . You have chosen them to be your partner for your whole life. Imagine, how difficult it was to tackle her.
Rules no 1 in marketing, “people want what they can’t have or don’t have”. So apply it to your life. You imagine this is your last day with your wife or this is your wife last day. What will you do to please her. We will always remember the good things about those yang dah tinggalkan kita. Why not we remember the good things orang yang masih ada dengan kita, our relationship become better.
Saya selalu jumpa janda-janda yang ketika ada suami mereka, mereka kutuk husband mereka. Tetapi bila husband meninggal, baru la teringatkan kebaikan suami mereka. “Abang kau dulu baik, dia la yang tengok-tengokkan …” Pernah dengarkan kata-kata macam tu. So start la puji-puji suami atau isteri tu selagi mereka masih berada dengan kita.
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